A few weeks ago, my roommate (http://travelingcabinet.blogspot.com/) posted on her blog what I thought was a familiar quote from Proverbs 31, about the excellent wife. But this quote had a slight discrepancy that surprised me:
“Who shall find a valiant woman?” (Proversb 31:10, Douay-Rheims Bible)
Valiant. Really? I was used to “An excellent wife, who shall find?” (ESV). But valiant? It was an interesting word choice and one that merited investigation. I pulled my Hebrew Bible and my Theological Wordbook of the Old Testament off the shelf and started flipping. My Hebrew is actually pretty weak (and Hebrew words regularly change spellings depending on their conjugation), so it took a while, but I was finally able to track down the word translated as “excellent” or “valiant”.
The word isand is a noun derived from the Hebrew verb, meaning to be firm or strong or to endure. The noun has a myriad of possible translations including “might, strength, power; able, valiant, virtuous, valor; army, host, forces; riches, substance, wealth.” It is used in a variety of contexts to refer to God and also to man. When referring to a man we may see it translated as “valiant man” or “mighty man of valor”. Says the TWOT “The individual designated seems to be the elite warrior similar to the hero of the Homeric epic…” Such a person was often associated with wealth and honor, as befitted their station.
Of its use in Proverbs 31, TWOT says this: “When the term is used of a woman, it is translated “virtuous”, but it may well be that a woman of this caliber had all the attributes of her male counterpart.”
Valiant, heroic, strong, able, valuable..all of these seem to be fitting of the Proverbs 31 woman and “valiant” in particular seems, to me, to capture the vivacity of the Type A superwoman found here. But then I turned the page…
Now, in our English Bible, the books are arranged in a certain order. If you turn the page from the end of Proverbs you run smack into Ecclesiastes. However, in the Hebrew Bible, it’s different. Turn the page in the Hebrew Bible and you run smack into RUTH.
Ruth? Yes, Ruth. And really, what more appropriate follow-up to Proverbs 31 could there be? Ruth takes the Proverbs 31 woman out of her acrostic lines of poetry and into real life. The Proverbs 31 woman is described as a “valiant woman”, the exact same Hebrew phrase occurs in Ruth 3:11 when Boaz tells Ruth “all my fellow townsmen know that you are a worthy woman.” And the parallels don’t stop there.
Ruth works with willing hands (Proverbs 31:13), she brings her food from afar to Naomi (31:14) to provide food for her household (31:15), she considers a field to glean from it (31:16), she casts her lot with a poor widow to care for her (31:20). Boaz, her eventual husband, is known in the gates and sits among the elders (31:23), she is the practitioner of kindness (31:26, the word “kindness” <hesed> is one of the key words of the book of Ruth). You get the point.
So often the image I have seen of a housewife, a wife and mother, is characterized by meekness and mildness, which isn’t bad, but if you’re looking for THAT woman, she’s in 1 Peter 3. No, the Proverbs 31 woman, in her own right and as personified in Ruth, is a feisty go-getter, an initiative taker, a strong and heroic woman who fears nothing but the Lord, and spends herself self-sacrificially in service to others. She is a hero. And THAT is a woman I would strive to be like. A valiant one.